meaning..meaningful

to be updated soon(philos concepts i enjoy..need to look through notes again..): at lunch today we had a discussion, me may and alex. I usually don't participate but said a word or too. It was on how well you know a person, and by how you may "know them" We talked about communication, how it can be false in trying to express the feeling being shared within the relationship. I think its about feeling, vibes and comfort. im hippy like that to run a relationship on vibes but theres more to it. Expression should be important in getting to know somebody, words may not be everything, sharing moments help build character within the relationship, spending time, chillen, those quiet times are important too. The mystery in what the person may be thinking keeps interest in each other and allows for different ways of learning about the person. I think getting to know someone takes patience and time. Once you become comfortable with somebody the words you use have more meaning, and you can express yourself in fewer words and they will understand even if you don't say anything. these bonds are awesome, do you have one? I think I do, I know a pair of girls who do like twins, me and my friend max, when we play music we bond and share a moment and we feel the same passion. When getting to know somebody my mind gets all abstract and perplexed on how they feel about me and if there is meaning in this relationship. This is due to the ignorance of trust, pushing for something that might not be really there is stupid. with time you begin to understand the person and then the negative thoughts on meaning will start to lighten and allow for a healthy relationship. With time people will find the bonds that hold the group of friends or couples together. And with our time here it was short but we had to come to trust and love each other very quickly. this initial action is the bond we needed to continue our friendships when we all return to our homes. this all bond will ensure we see each others again someday, could be years from now but I will know there will be utmost excitement and enjoyment in each others companies. With seeing each other in our home elements that will create another experience, another effect to base trust on, and another shared moment to recall meaningful memories.